For the first time in at least 18 years, I will not be celebrating Christmas in my usual fashion. I will not be organizing a family photo, addressing and mailing hundreds of cards, decorating every room, trimming a live tree or hosting any parties. I will not be buying gifts and wrapping for hours. (Ok, I might buy the dog a new toy.) I will not be coordinating schedules to accommodate other people. I enjoy doing most of these things but this is not the year for it.
I am not skipping Christmas. I'm already listening to holiday music. I will help my oldies trim a small tree. I will keep my mother and sister company while they do their annual candy making. I will help my mother prepare a holiday meal. I will enjoy the children's Christmas show and the choir's cantata at church.
Tradition and rituals are important to me. This will be my first Christmas making some new ones.
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You have worked so hard on perfecting everyones Christmas. This year, your gift to many is, to learn that skill of doing it themselves. No disrespect intended for anyone. I know you loved making the magic happen. Now, let some of us teach you to relax and enjoy the season without running. Also, if you, your Mom, & Stacey need help making that candy... you know who is ready to put on my Christmas apron!
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